Men's Work Directory

Men's Sex & Sexual Intimacy Support

Sex is one of the most loaded and least talked about areas of men's lives — carrying shame, performance pressure, disconnection, and often a deep hunger for something more real. These coaches and practitioners help men develop a healthy, conscious relationship with sex: not as performance, but as a site of genuine connection, presence, and aliveness.

40+ programs
Global practitioners
All backgrounds welcome

Who this is for

  • Men dealing with sexual dysfunction, low desire, premature ejaculation, or performance anxiety that is affecting their relationships
  • Those wanting to develop a more conscious, present, and connected approach to sex
  • Men whose sexual patterns have become compulsive, avoidant, or disconnected from genuine intimacy
  • Anyone who wants to understand the relationship between sex, love, power, and masculine presence

What men actually carry around sex

Sex is one of the most heavily loaded areas of men's lives — surrounded by performance pressure, shame, distorted expectations from pornography, and a near-total absence of honest conversation. Most men arrive at adulthood with a relationship to sex that is shaped by what they absorbed in adolescence and almost never examined. The result is that even men in loving relationships can find sex disconnected, anxious, compulsive, or quietly dying — and have no language for what's actually happening or how to change it.

Sex as a site of genuine connection

Sex coaching for men works at the intersection of the psychological, relational, and somatic. It addresses the specific patterns that make sex disconnected for men: performance anxiety, spectating, the disconnection between physical arousal and genuine desire, the inability to stay present with a partner, and the shame that keeps men from saying what is actually true. Coaches trained in this area — often drawing on somatic sexology, tantric traditions, and relational depth work — help men develop a relationship with sex that is conscious, honest, and genuinely alive rather than managed.

Programs & coaches

9 listings for men's sex & sexual intimacy support

Dan DeSena — Sexual Self-Mastery & Embodiment Coaching

Coaching Program

Licensed psychotherapist (LMSW) turned embodiment coach with 17+ years of experience. Specializes in men's sexual health, emotional intelligence, and somatic he…

Ann Arbor, MI (in-person) · Online (global)Sexual Self-Mastery course: contact · 1:1 coaching: schedule discovery callSexual HealthSomaticEmbodiment
View Profile →

Nic Warner — Men's Embodiment & Transformation Coach

Coach

Former retail architect turned transformational coach. Works with men on embodiment, shadow work, relationship dynamics, purpose, intergenerational trauma, sexu…

New Zealand · Online — Global · Events Worldwide1:1 Coaching: by application · Programs: see nicwarner.comEmbodimentShadow WorkPolarity
View Profile →

David Deida — Way of the Superior Man

Teacher / Author

Internationally renowned spiritual teacher and author of 11 books in 35+ languages. Deida originated the modern sexual polarity framework and has taught worksho…

Worldwide (US, Europe, online)Books from $15 · Online training $197–$997 · Live intensives $2,000–$5,000PolaritySacred IntimacyPurpose
View Profile →

John Wineland — Embodied Men's Leadership Training

Program & Workshops

World-renowned men's work and sacred intimacy teacher. Author of 'From the Core.' His flagship EMLT is a 6-month container for masculine embodiment, leadership,…

Austin, TX + Online (global)EMLT 6-month: $5,600 · Workshops: $800–$2,500Embodied LeadershipPolaritySacred Intimacy
View Profile →

Terry Real — Relational Life Institute

Program & Workshops

Bestselling author and therapist specializing in male emotional health. Relational Life Therapy (RLT) helps men move from disconnection and shame to authentic r…

Online (global) + Boston, MAMen's workshop: $97–$197 · Group coaching: $500–$1,500RelationshipsRLTAuthor
View Profile →

Ted Riter — The Authentic Man Program

Program

The Authentic Man Program (AMP) helps men develop genuine confidence, authentic presence, and real connection with women — without pickup artistry or performanc…

Bay Area, CA · Online (global)Weekend intensives: contact · Online programs: see authenticmantm.comAuthentic MasculinityConfidencePresence
View Profile →

GS Youngblood — The Masculine in Relationship

Author & Coach

Author of "The Masculine in Relationship." GS Youngblood helps men develop a grounded, loving masculine presence that creates polarity and deep intimacy in rela…

Online (global)Book: $20 · Online courses: $97–$497 · Coaching: by applicationRelationshipsPolarityAuthor
View Profile →

Stefanos Sifandos — Relationship Coach & Behavioural Scientist

Coach

Relationship coach, behavioural scientist, and educator with 15+ years experience. Featured in Bloomberg, Forbes, and Fox News. Programs include The Conscious M…

Online — Global1:1 Coaching: by inquiry · Group programs: see stefanossifandos.comRelationshipsBehavioural ScienceCouples
View Profile →

Allan McGrath Isbell — Relationship & Intimacy Coaching

Coach

Men's embodiment coach and intimacy mentor specialising in masculine training, polarity, and sacred relationship. Works with men and couples to break free from…

Online — Global · In-person Immersions1:1 Mentorship: by application · Couples Coaching: by application · Free men's group availableIntimacyPolarityRelationships
View Profile →

Related areas

Sexuality & Sexual HealthIntimacy CoachingRelationshipsPolarity & Masculine-Feminine DynamicsShadow Work
For practitioners

Are you a coach or program leader?

Get listed on the directory and reach men who are actively looking for the kind of work you do.

Learn more →