Men's Work Directory

Relationship Coaching for Men

Relationships are where men's inner work becomes visible. These practitioners help men understand their relational patterns, develop real intimacy skills, and build the kind of partnership they actually want.

40+ programs
Global practitioners
All backgrounds welcome

Who this is for

  • Men in long-term relationships that have grown distant, conflict-ridden, or sexually dead
  • Those who repeat the same patterns across relationships and want to understand why
  • Men navigating affairs, betrayal, or the aftermath of a relationship collapse
  • Anyone who wants to become a partner capable of genuine intimacy — not just proximity

Why men struggle with intimacy

Most men were never taught intimacy. They were taught to fix, provide, and protect, but not to be emotionally present, not to navigate the complexity of a real relationship with another human being, and not to remain grounded when closeness becomes uncomfortable. The result is men who love deeply but show up in ways that leave partners feeling unseen, and who feel genuinely confused when love isn't enough to bridge a gap they don't have the tools to name.

What real partnership requires

Deep relationship requires a man who is grounded in himself, not performing, not managing, but genuinely present. Masculine embodiment work, nervous system grounding, relational pattern work, polarity training, and sacred intimacy practice all work toward this: the capacity to be fully available to another person without losing yourself. Understanding your relational patterns, the attachment dynamics, avoidance strategies, and emotional habits formed in early life, gives a man choice in how he shows up, rather than just reaction. That shift changes marriages, changes families, and changes the quality of a man's entire life.

Programs & coaches

27 listings for men's relationships support

Travis Streb — Not Done Yet

Program & Retreats

Founder of Not Done Yet (NDY), men's embodiment coach and co-leader of John Wineland's EMLT. Travis runs a 1-year men's cohort for purpose, legacy, and depth. 5…

Mendocino, CA (retreat) · Online (program)NDY 1-year program: $2,500 deposit · Retreat: $1,500–$2,800EmbodimentBreathworkShadow Work
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Dan DeSena — Sexual Self-Mastery & Embodiment Coaching

Coaching Program

Licensed psychotherapist (LMSW) turned embodiment coach with 17+ years of experience. Specializes in men's sexual health, emotional intelligence, and somatic he…

Ann Arbor, MI (in-person) · Online (global)Sexual Self-Mastery course: contact · 1:1 coaching: schedule discovery callSexual HealthSomaticEmbodiment
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Nathan Muniz

Individual Coaching

Individual coaching for men yearning for healthier, more enjoyable, thriving dating lives or relationships. For men willing to take steps towards transforming t…

Online, Eugene Oregon$400 a monthIndividual CoachingSomatic / Embodiment
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Nic Warner — Men's Embodiment & Transformation Coach

Coach

Former retail architect turned transformational coach. Works with men on embodiment, shadow work, relationship dynamics, purpose, intergenerational trauma, sexu…

New Zealand · Online — Global · Events Worldwide1:1 Coaching: by application · Programs: see nicwarner.comEmbodimentShadow WorkPolarity
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Eli Buren — Zion Men's Immersion & Coaching

Retreat & Coaching

23-year practitioner and longtime teaching assistant to David Deida. Eli leads the legendary annual Zion Men's Immersion in remote Utah canyon country, European…

Zion, UT · Denmark · Online (global)Zion Immersion (8 days): $3,500+ · 1:1 coaching: contactEmbodimentDepth WorkNature
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David Deida — Way of the Superior Man

Teacher / Author

Internationally renowned spiritual teacher and author of 11 books in 35+ languages. Deida originated the modern sexual polarity framework and has taught worksho…

Worldwide (US, Europe, online)Books from $15 · Online training $197–$997 · Live intensives $2,000–$5,000PolaritySacred IntimacyPurpose
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Hoffman Process — Residential Retreat

Retreat

The Hoffman Process is an intensive 7-day residential retreat addressing negative patterns inherited from parents and childhood. Internationally recognized, res…

Multiple US locations + internationalFrom $5,000–$6,500 (all-inclusive residential)Residential RetreatChildhood PatternsResearch-Backed
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A Shift in Being — Men's Transformation Programs

Program

Men's transformation programs focusing on identity, purpose, and breaking through the patterns keeping men stuck. Group containers and 1:1 coaching.

Online (global)Group programs: contact · 1:1 Coaching: by applicationTransformationPurposeIdentity
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John Wineland — Embodied Men's Leadership Training

Program & Workshops

World-renowned men's work and sacred intimacy teacher. Author of 'From the Core.' His flagship EMLT is a 6-month container for masculine embodiment, leadership,…

Austin, TX + Online (global)EMLT 6-month: $5,600 · Workshops: $800–$2,500Embodied LeadershipPolaritySacred Intimacy
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Dr. Robert Glover — No More Mr. Nice Guy

Author & Coach

Author of the landmark "No More Mr. Nice Guy." Dr. Glover helps men break free from Nice Guy Syndrome — people-pleasing, hidden agendas, and passive-aggressive…

Puerto Vallarta, MX (workshops) · Online (global)TPI Workshop: contact · Integration Nation: monthly membership · 6-Month Mentorship: contactNice Guy SyndromeIntegrated MasculinityRelationships
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Ted Riter — The Authentic Man Program

Program

The Authentic Man Program (AMP) helps men develop genuine confidence, authentic presence, and real connection with women — without pickup artistry or performanc…

Bay Area, CA · Online (global)Weekend intensives: contact · Online programs: see authenticmantm.comAuthentic MasculinityConfidencePresence
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Evryman — Men's Groups & Retreats

Organization

Men's community platform offering weekly online men's groups, in-person retreats, and a global brotherhood network. Founded by Lucas Krump and Dan Doty. Focuses…

Online (global) · In-person retreats US + internationalOnline groups: subscription · Retreats: $1,500–$3,500BrotherhoodOnline GroupsEmotional Intelligence
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Sacred Sons — Men's Brotherhood Retreats

Retreat

Multi-day nature retreats focused on healing the father wound, brotherhood, and embodied masculinity. Online community included post-retreat. Focused on love, s…

US + international locations$1,500–$3,500 · Online community: $30–$100/moBrotherhoodFather WoundNature
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MELD — Men's Somatic Retreat & Programs (PRIME)

Retreat

MELD PRIME is a 4-day in-person somatic training retreat grounded in 70+ years of research (Polyvagal Theory, Somatic Experiencing, IFS, Hakomi). Addresses stre…

Various US locations (East and West)Contact meld.community for pricingSomaticNervous SystemScience-Based
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Spirit Camp — Wild Heart & Deida-Inspired Retreats

Retreat

Redwood retreat center in Northern California hosting Deida/Wineland-inspired men's retreats, Travis Streb's Not Done Yet immersion, and Wild Heart breathwork r…

Mendocino County, CA$800–$2,800 depending on retreatBreathworkEmbodimentNature
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Alchemy of Men Retreat

Retreat

4-day retreat on a 500+ acre Texas ranch led by Master Certified Coaches. Addresses belief systems, leadership, relationships, and brotherhood through workshops…

Texas ranch$2,500–$4,000 (lodging + meals included)LeadershipBrotherhoodShadow Work
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Terry Real — Relational Life Institute

Program & Workshops

Bestselling author and therapist specializing in male emotional health. Relational Life Therapy (RLT) helps men move from disconnection and shame to authentic r…

Online (global) + Boston, MAMen's workshop: $97–$197 · Group coaching: $500–$1,500RelationshipsRLTAuthor
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GS Youngblood — The Masculine in Relationship

Author & Coach

Author of "The Masculine in Relationship." GS Youngblood helps men develop a grounded, loving masculine presence that creates polarity and deep intimacy in rela…

Online (global)Book: $20 · Online courses: $97–$497 · Coaching: by applicationRelationshipsPolarityAuthor
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Chuck Chapman — Men's Counseling & Coaching

Coach

Licensed counselor and men's coach specializing in men's issues, divorce recovery, anger, and emotional health. Works with men who want real change without judg…

Online (global)Initial consultation: contact for pricingCounselingDivorce RecoveryAnger
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Preston Smiles — Love Louder

Coach & Author

Author of "Love Louder" and international motivational speaker. Preston Smiles coaches men and couples on love, purpose, and authentic living. Known for bringin…

Online (global) + events worldwideOnline programs: $97–$997 · Coaching: by application · Events: variableLovePurposeAuthor
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AJ Mars — The Authentic Man's Path

Coach

Men's coach specializing in authenticity, purpose, and breaking free from people-pleasing. Works with men in 1:1 coaching and group programs to step into their…

Online (global)1:1 Coaching: by application · Group programs: contactAuthenticityPurposePeople Pleasing
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Justin Patrick Pierce — Psychotherapy for Men

Therapist

Licensed psychotherapist working specifically with men on depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues. Integrates somatic, depth, and relational approa…

Online (global)Therapy sessions: contact for ratesPsychotherapyLicensedSomatic
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ManTalks — Men's Self-Leadership & Community

Program & Community

Founded by Connor Beaton. Programs include The Alliance (men's community), Men's Self-Leadership Program (MSLP), Shadow Course, Relationship Mastery, men's week…

Online — Global · Live events worldwideThe Alliance: community membership · MSLP: cohort pricing · Courses: online · Private coaching: by applicationMen's Mental HealthShadow WorkSelf-Leadership
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Stefanos Sifandos — Relationship Coach & Behavioural Scientist

Coach

Relationship coach, behavioural scientist, and educator with 15+ years experience. Featured in Bloomberg, Forbes, and Fox News. Programs include The Conscious M…

Online — Global1:1 Coaching: by inquiry · Group programs: see stefanossifandos.comRelationshipsBehavioural ScienceCouples
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Taylor Sleaford — Life, Leadership & Men's Work Coach

Coach

Life and leadership coach in Denver offering men's work, leadership coaching, and the Threshold men's work program. Gets to root cause rather than symptoms. Hel…

Denver, CO · Online — Global1:1 Coaching: by application · Group programs: see taylorsleaford.comMen's WorkLeadershipPurpose
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Allan McGrath Isbell — Relationship & Intimacy Coaching

Coach

Men's embodiment coach and intimacy mentor specialising in masculine training, polarity, and sacred relationship. Works with men and couples to break free from…

Online — Global · In-person Immersions1:1 Mentorship: by application · Couples Coaching: by application · Free men's group availableIntimacyPolarityRelationships
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Jose Alejandro — The Initiated Path

Coach & Facilitator

Master certified coach, men's work facilitator, embodiment teacher, and wilderness rite of passage guide with 9+ years of experience. Guides purpose-driven men…

Online (global) · In-person retreatsPrivate coaching: by application · IMPACT Program: contact · Training Grounds: contactEmbodied LeadershipRites of PassageWilderness Initiation
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Common questions

My relationship is in trouble. Should I do individual coaching or couples work?

Often both, at different points. Individual men's coaching helps a man understand his own patterns and develop the emotional capacity that makes better relating possible. Couples work then has better ground to build on. Many coaches in this directory work with both, as individual and relational work are deeply connected.

My partner says I'm emotionally unavailable. I don't know what that means.

It usually means you're physically present but not fully there, not tracking your partner's emotional experience, not sharing your own, withdrawing when closeness or conflict arises. It's a trained adaptation, not a character flaw. And it changes with the right work: nervous system grounding, relational pattern work, and embodied presence practice all address it directly.

I've been in multiple relationships that follow the same pattern. Is that my fault?

Fault is the wrong frame. Pattern is more useful. We all repeat dynamics until we understand them. Understanding your pattern isn't about blame. It's about gaining choice. With the right support, men regularly break patterns they've carried for decades. It's some of the most important work available.

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Divorce RecoveryFatherhoodIdentity & Self-WorthEmbodimentShadow Work
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